Trevor Harrigan Hodne

1979 - 2004

 

Trevor Harrigan Hodne

Trevor

I MISS YOU MORE
. . . by Kim Hodne

I miss you more than you'll ever know
The world is not the same without you here
Sadness washes over me without a moments notice
Your presence can be so clear

I wish I could me that Mom again
The one who answered every call
And laughed at all your stories
Who lent the understanding ear

I loved being there for you
I looked forward to all that lay ahead
I wanted the best for you
I lost such a good friend

I still long to see that bright smile
That lit up those Irish eyes
I want to feel the strong hug
I want to hear your contagious laugh

The wait seems so long indeed
Until I can see you again
I just want to be that Mom again
The one who loved you more than you'll ever know

An Ordinary Day

He had a broad smile and bright eyes
As he bagged my groceries
On an ordinary day

We laughed about the checker
Who didn’t know her fruits
She laughed along with us

I glanced at his name tag
And saw it read Trevor
My heart took a leap

I said my son’s name is Trevor
Surprised I used the present tense
He’s 29 now-
But I left out the rest….

It’s not a very common name
Are there many in your grade?
At first, just me
Then a few others came along

Does anyone call you Trev?
No, he blushed
Some call me Trevi

I smiled and said that’s nice
We always called him Trev
He loaded my basket
Smiling the whole time

He asked if I needed help out
And I wanted to say
Oh no, you just gave me a gift
Just to say his name aloud

To see more wonderful photos and learn more about Trevor,
please click on this link:
http://www.trevorhodne.org

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